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​​ Cliff
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A Leaders message that humbled me—and affirmed my purpose

5/25/2025

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Several years ago, I commented on a video with a leadership message posted by the then U.S. Air Force 509th Bomb Wing Command Chief Master Sergeant. Just a quick note:

“Nice video Chief!”
I wasn’t expecting what came next.

The Chief responded:
“Thanks Cliff, I tell my Airmen about the leader you are. You were the subject of one of my ALS speeches. You led by example and inspired me to be the best Airman I could be.”

Reading that stopped me in my tracks. It was humbling—deeply so.

I replied with the only words that felt honest:
“I appreciate that more than you know. I’ve talked about you to many people in and out of the Air Force. To have had a small influence on the great leader you’ve become has made me very proud and humbled me even more.”

Here’s what this reminded me about leadership:

✅ People are always watching.
You never know who you’re inspiring just by showing up with integrity, consistency, and commitment.

✅ Leadership is legacy.
It’s not just about the role you’re in. It’s about the influence you leave behind in others.

 ✅ Recognition matters.
A few sincere words can fuel someone’s purpose for years to come. 
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✅ Humility keeps you grounded.
Hearing that I impacted a leader I respect so much reminded me why staying humble is non-negotiable.

✅ Mentorship flows both ways.
Even when you’re guiding someone, you’re learning, growing, and becoming better in return.

I’ve always believed in leading by example, but this moment reaffirmed why it matters. Leadership isn’t about seeking credit. It’s about investing in others, staying true to your values, and leaving people better than you found them.​

To the Chief—thank you for the kind words. And to all the quiet leaders out there: Keep showing up. You’re making more of a difference than you realize.


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    Cliff Kinchen is a lifelong martial artist and seasoned leadership trainer who blends combat discipline with real-world leadership insight. With decades of experience—from Air Force instruction to corporate boardrooms—he helps others grow through confidence, character, and challenge. His writing sparks reflection, inspires action, and invites readers to lead from the inside out

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