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​​ Cliff
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Not every military leader is a good leader—uniform or not.

5/21/2025

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As a retired Senior Noncommissioned Officer in the U.S. Air Force, I’ve spent my career in leadership—training recruits, mentoring instructors, teaching in schools, and running a martial arts academy. I’ve learned one truth over and over again:

Leadership isn’t about rank or position. It’s about trust.
And not every military leader understands that—especially in uniform.



​A Cautionary Tale from the Academy
Being selected as an instructor at the U.S. Air Force Security Forces Academy was a career highlight—but it revealed a hard truth: not all leadership environments are healthy.
 
Our Chief, the Senior Enlisted Manager, was known for punishing instructors who returned to their primary duties after their 4-year term—using his influence to assign them undesirable posts. It was a fear-based tactic to keep experienced instructors in place.
 
Word spread, and fewer qualified candidates applied. The result? New recruits missed out on the mentorship they needed.
 
Instead of fostering loyalty, the Chief used connection power to control others. He could have built a culture of excellence—instead, he bred distrust.
 
I refused to be a casualty of that mindset. I applied for recruiting duty—an assignment outside his influence—and was selected within 30 days. He wasn’t happy. But his leadership drove people away, not forward.

The Bigger Lesson
Military culture emphasizes structure, discipline, and execution. But when leaders confuse authority with effectiveness, they miss the mark.

Real leadership requires:
- Respect over fear
- Inspiration over intimidation
- Empowerment over control

Without those qualities, even the most experienced senior NCO can undermine morale, talent retention, and mission success. If unchecked, this leadership style won’t end with the uniform—it will carry over into civilian life.

The Misconception: 'Military Leaders Are Natural Civilian Leaders'
There’s a widespread belief that military experience automatically produces great leaders in the civilian world. And while veterans bring valuable traits—discipline, work ethic, adaptability—that belief overlooks a crucial truth:

Military leadership is built in a controlled environment. Civilian leadership is built in a fluid one.
In the military, roles are clear, chains of command are strict, and consequences are immediate.

But in the civilian world:

- Teams are flatter
- Motivation is intrinsic, not enforced
- Influence must be earned, not assumed

Leadership Must Evolve
Through my experience—as an leadership instructor, recruiter, educator, and martial arts coach—I’ve come to believe this:
Leaders are measured not by how many follow orders--but by how many choose to follow when they don’t have to. We need more leaders in and out of uniform who value people, build trust, and use their influence to lift others—not control them.

Have you served under someone who misused their influence? Or someone who inspired you to lead better? I’d love to hear your story—and how it shaped your view of leadership.

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    Cliff Kinchen is a lifelong martial artist and seasoned leadership trainer who blends combat discipline with real-world leadership insight. With decades of experience—from Air Force instruction to corporate boardrooms—he helps others grow through confidence, character, and challenge. His writing sparks reflection, inspires action, and invites readers to lead from the inside out

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